• How much does it cost to join?

    Zero, zilch, nothing. This is a completely free site. We are using the ads you see to cover the costs of maintaining the site.

  • I'm trying to sign up but the website won't accept my zipcode, why not?

    Our site is currently designed for members in the countries listed in the drop down box below the postal code entry. You must register with a valid postal code for the country selected. We have recently added Australia, New Zealand, India, and the UK. We are working on expanding to other countries too!

  • Is this an online dating website?

    NO! This site is exclusively for making platonic friends. If you are contacted by someone that is trying to use this as a dating website, you can report that person to us from their profile page by clicking on "Report Abuse".

  • I was looking at profiles and found one with inappropriate information, what should I do?

    Please click on "Report Abuse" within the user's profile. You can also contact us. We will review the user content and take the necessary action - either ask the user to change their offensive content or delete the profile for a violation of the terms of use.

  • I received an email that there was a message waiting for me in my not4dating inbox but when I click on the link there is no message, where did it go?

    When a user deletes his/her account, all content associated with the account is also deleted. The notification went out when the user was active, but then deleted his/her account between the time that the notification went out and you clicked on the link.

  • I have a question not addressed here, who can I contact?

    Please visit the contact us page.

  • How do I delete my account?

    After logging in, on the top menu bar, click on "My Profile" and then choose the "Edit Profile" tab. Scroll to the bottom and click on "Delete Profile".